Dating someone with npd
“After I travel the world and write my book I’ll sell it to Hollywood, Johnny Depp will play me, then I’ll start my business and consult, giving speeches around the world for six figures…” etc etc etc. – Believes he/she is unique and special and can be understood by and associate with only other unique or high-status people. He is so unique and rare that no one can compete with him and you probably can’t even comprehend half of the amazing thoughts he has in his head.
– Requires excessive admiration, adulation, attention and affirmation.
Narcissists think listening is like being a hockey goalie: They knock away what others say instead of letting the ideas of others enter a shared pool of information.
If you say something that's a good idea, don't expect credit from a deeply entrenched narcissist.
While egomaniacs may make for irritating but good TV, they can have a truly destructive impact on the lives of their loved ones. When you say something to them, they seem to hear it and take it seriously.If you don't do what they want, they are likely to get angry.Initially, your BPD partner will place you on a pedestal until you come to believe you are as special as you are being told you are.Then, suddenly and inexplicably, your partner will become aloof, emotionally and perhaps physically abusive, and then leave you feeling discarded.